Attractiveness is a broadly encompassing concept. It is a fusion of body, mind and soul. It starts with taking good care of one's physical attributes. Beautiful people are not necessarily supermodels with Greek-god faces and unreal proportions. Beautiful people are normal people who watch their diet, keep their bodies clean, and don tasteful, yet inexpensive clothing. These physical attributes though should be considered as merely the tip of the iceberg that beckons to the deeper more essential part of true attractiveness.
Beauty, more importantly, is internal.Whether handsome or pretty, bland or plain, the internally beautiful betray an intelligence and burning diligence that reflects their personality. Recall that personality is molded by how we carry ourselves and associate with the world at large. Magnetic people take effort to be the best that they can be. Here’s how to ooze magnetic attraction:
1. Books and periodicals are your best friend. Beef up what’s in your head and rack up more beauty points with your enlightened discussions. Intelligence is attractive, it makes you an interesting person as opposed to being a boring one, especially when you can take on a vast expanse of topics or issues.
2. Develop your sense of humor. Read, watch, and be with people with wit and sense of humor to hone this attractive attribute. Wit is a rare and valued commodity.
3. Is that a burger you’re shovelling down your throat? Stop. You are literally what you eat. Want to be a lard bucket? Then chomp that burger.
4. Soap, shampoo and mouthwash are better than all the pheromone sprays, libido enhancers and failed nose lifts. Good hygiene is the honey that attracts the delightful bees.
5. Dress to impress- 24/7. You probably had one of those moments. There you were, in sloppy coveralls at the mall. Then you run into the boss or a beautiful stranger.BIG mistake. Don't forget to wear that smile as well - you will never know who is around to appreciate the charm of your smile.
6. Ask and Listen. The most dazzling conversationalists avoid monopolizing conversations. Rather, they ask and are great listeners. Stop and think about that. Isn’t your best friend a great listener? And listen with your eyes and heart - being a good listener doesn't mean simply listening, but taking to heart and mind all that has been said.
7. Read inspirational books - it shapes one's character to becoming a good-natured, kindhearted person with a positive aura, and such nature is a very endearing trait.
8. Finally, think sexy. Feel sexy. You are what you think you are. Your body follows what the mind dictates. The $3000 executive coaches like to pass this astounding piece of common sense for a hefty fee. Save the money.
So, get out there and glow. You can be attractive without those creams, lotions and surgeons. True beauty is holistic. Always keep in mind that magnetic attraction is the totality of all these factors.
Want some recommended reading for dating? Girls check this: The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave, or for the men: Guy Gets Girl: How To Get Women - Fast!
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